Flirting Between Friends

#1

Me and my homie Badcat are having a bit of a debate...

He says that a few of his friends girlfriends routinely flirt with him when his friends, and their boyfriends are in the room...

Now, to me, this is a very complex and volatile situation...You guys know how I am about the dictionary, I think flirting is acting or behaving in a way that is suggestive to sex, or sexual behavior...

He doesn't feel that flirting is that big of a deal...

What do you guys constitue as flirting, and is it ever acceptable between friends..? What would you do, if when your buddies weren't around, their girlfriends flirt and hit on you..? Would you tell your boys..? Tell the girls to stop..? Or just kick back and enjoy it..?

#2

Everyone thinks I flirt all the time... my wife even thinks I do. But, I'm not... I'm just being funny. I have NO GAME.

Now, girls, and immature ones mostly, flirt with guys because they want the attention. Is it wrong... well, ask yourself one simple question: If I am involved with someone, is it exclusive? If the answer is yes, then the shit is wrong.

Exclusive: limited to the object or objects designated.

So, is flirting wrong when dating... you betcha. Because, I'd bet if it was your friends girl, and she was flirting with some other swinging dick cat, he would be PISSED!

#3

if everone in the room knows that it is just a joke than ok. but if one of them gets it seriously then shit happens...
best is not to play that game...

#4

Hey, there is a little bit of truth in every joke... thats what makes it funny. Flirting as a joke will ead to cheating. It's only a matter of time before the joke goes a bit too far.

#5

QUOTEFlirting as a joke will lead to cheating.

....word

#6

sounds like you've been burned

#7

not so much been burned as much as I "burned" someone else. Not real proud of it, but it happened.

#8

#9

man, when you got as much charm as me, and are as openly sincere,... I can't get a burger without the girl chillin at my table to talk a minute. and i genuinely love people, and want to exchange words and ideas with as many people as I can.

and rumour has it, I have some pretty interesting additions to conversations.

my girl flirts with more girls than me, though...

#10

If your chick is flirting with women, then there is something you're not doing buddy. I would love to see/participate in it... but you are slackin.

I'm nice... for about 10 minutes... then I hate people.