Am I a total sleazebag, an opportunist, or just damn lucky?

[jdog]

I don't know if I'm ok with losing my options......but getting married opens up so many options......choices choices.

For a woman maybe...but for a man? No, we lose more options than we gain.

[g00b3r]

Please do explain.

[Drew]

I'd much prefer you to explain, g00b, because I think its been talked about in many places, at many times what people lose by getting married (if nothing else just some freedoms that non-married people may have), but I'm genuinely curious as to what are some of these "so many options" that getting married opens up?

[Drew]

Any updates on this DD?!

[deepdiver32073]

As I posted elsewhere, I went up to Rome for their Fall break and ended up helping them move to a bigger place. The second day I was there, we ended up in her bed for a "good morning" quickie while Maddie was in the bedroom next door. We both fully intended to get some more fun in over the long weekend, but all the moving prevented us getting together later. She told me the day I left that she almost came into my bedroom the night before, but she was afraid Maddie would wake up and catch us (I was sleeping in Maddie's bed and the two of them were in Steph's).

Since that trip, we've texted each other a bit, but not as much as before. I know she's found a young man she's interested in and is hopefully getting her itch scratched. If nothing else ever happens, I'll be happily satisfied with the times we had fun together.

She and Maddie are due to visit me next month, so we'll see what happens then...