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HAHAHA! Before and after pics eh? Well let me consider that one. I'm always a little paranoid but if you fellas knew my luck...I'm just afraid I post em and outa a million to one shot she has a friend that also frequents this site and I get busted. But I'll thinks on it.

And see Stalkerboy knew what I was talkin about, you don't wish harm or anything but to see them gettin hefty is just kinda cosmic revenge is all. :angel:

In my case, the weight was only 1/2 the surprise.... turns out she was a bit of a psycho as well... LOL
..... her poor hubby.....

Dude they are ALL part psycho...why do ya think we want em so bad?

I dunno,Dark Horse. There are a handful of sane ones. Few & far between though.

darklighter1 wrote:Dude they are ALL part psycho...why do ya think we want em so bad?

She was not psycho in the good way..... =p~

Hey guys, be nice. Women gain "happy" weight and stress weight. We also don't have the best metabolisms. It's impossible for girls to lose weight without murdering themselves. Personally, I haven't lost my pregnancy weight and I really don't have time to exercise. I work from 7 am to 6 pm and only have time to come home and have dinner with my baby and then do homework and go to bed. It sucks! Don't make fun of us fatties

luvbugin wrote:Hey guys, be nice. Women gain "happy" weight and stress weight. We also don't have the best metabolisms. It's impossible for girls to lose weight without murdering themselves. Personally, I haven't lost my pregnancy weight and I really don't have time to exercise. I work from 7 am to 6 pm and only have time to come home and have dinner with my baby and then do homework and go to bed. It sucks! Don't make fun of us fatties

Yeah but you said it right there! YOU were pregnant. Big difference. Too many girls especially in America and most especially in the North East are eating for two people and they're not even PREGNANT. So don't feel bad LB (tee hee...kinda ironic initials for this post eh?) some woman do have an excuse for getting big. But other girls just have no damn reason for upsizing! Men either ok?

But my ex girl isn't that big, I can just see the beginning of trouble is all compared to when I was with her. I mean she's just turned 30 and she's 4'11 or 5'0 so any weight is really going to show quickly. She just has to watch it but she drinks like a fish so it's gonna be an uphill battle for her from now on out.

dl1...CDR...Oh man oh man...That shit is going to become verb...Like YO! you just got dl1'd..! Like being 'Jetered' haha...

OK, now, we are definitely touching on some uncharted territory...I mean, how much weight is acceptable to be gained..? All things said, I'd say about 20-30 pounds is OK...It kinds depends on where it goes too...Some people have harder time loosing weight than others, and for some (like luv) being on the type of diet that would be required to actually loose weight would be more trouble than not...It would likely require some nonstop action (mind out of the gutter please) and unless you're already a busy body, the shit just isn't going to work...

I was 210-220 most of my high school and college days...I'm now about 235-240...But I've put on more muscle mass than I had before...I still wear the same size clothes and pants...Except my button down shirts, I'm Lou Ferrigno out of them bad boys...But jeans, slacks, etc...All good...I do a fair amount of work twice a week though just so that I can eat what I want...But..Metabolism...Has never been my friend...

I don't know girl sizes that well...Some girls have size 2 waists and size 8 asses...But on average, I guess if you go from an 8-12 that will usually mean you've gained more tits and ass and a little rounder in other places...I'm all about being comfortable...If you're on your 2nd or 3rd wardrobe because you're packing on the lbs, then I personally find that wasteful and lazy...If you were once one size and eloped out of those and into another size, OK, cool...But at some point, you gotta check in the mirror and say, 'Damn, what the hell..?' If you lack the willpower to do it on your own (most do, even me sometimes) enlist the help of a buddy...Forget trying to be fine for someone else, loosing weight is healthy..!

On a side note, it took my neighbor 14 seconds to climb the 4 small steps to get into his house today...I immediately came in and exercised..! :p

I find it a point of personal pride...So, if I see an X and she has mercilessly packed on a few slabs of bacon, then I'm certainly glad she's an X...

Oh yeah some people just have the slow metabolism so it's always a battle and those people you can't fault especially if they're trying to eat better and or exercising. But then there's the girls (and guys) who you see in the early 20's who just can't stop eating and drinking and just get on a path to ruin so that by the time 30 hits...and it hits hard!....it's like the dark side of the Force and those hard liven ways will forever dominate your destiny.

14 seconds to go up 4 steps huh? BWHAHAHA!!! Now I wanna go for a run just hearing that one!

LMAO...I don't know if you saw the pics of my house before, I posted them on here somewhere, but yeah...They're literally about 5, maybe 6 inches apart...But yeah, some people have a hard time loosing weight, and those people I don't fault...But if you're a 36-38 size pants, and your ass is now in a 48-50...That's crazy...

Case and point, the late rapper Big Pun...

Before (Circa 1990):



and After (Late 90's):



Dude was as talented as anyone...Died of heart failure at 28 years of age...He reportedly weighed 698 pounds at the time of his death...Sooooooo....Yeah...I'm not the sexiest dude, but I love my life...It's not a myth what weight gains do...Diabetes, all kinds of shit..! I have no idea why some chicks let themselves go, but now that we're talking about it dl1, I've been going through my mind trying to think of the last girl I dated that I knew blew up...Actually, almost all of my x's are smaller than they were when I was with them, mostly because they're not letting me poke them in that special spot anymore, tee hee...Yes, the rumors are true..! If your girl was skinny in HS, and got to college and got thick in the right places, she's getting some grade A beef my friend, and probably not missing you at all...

Might as well touch on the other part of the subject, haha...Some weight gains are fucking awesome and leave you feeling like shit when you see them..!