To Cheat

#11

the reality of cheating, is in the unrefined state, the human sex drive is not "targeted" at a person, but a sexual urge. to consecrate a person to your own sexual contact, can really only go so far,.. but it is a sac red vow.

As far as people, humans have "carnal" tendencies to fuck, not marry. Marriage is a agreement, to hold each other sexually sacred. For some reason, it is socially oppressed. Technically, without being "sanctified" toward one another, you are "cheating", you just may not be promiscuous. It's ok, I "live in sin" with my girl,.. and god doesn't really care, but he doesn't let me live it down when i come to him about our problems.

Most people who are in relationships that "cheat" should just really be in open relationships, or get serious. they glorify their position, and it gives them a chance to not have to "address" real problems in their life. Me, I was in a "player-mode" for a minute in my past, and my girl (at the time) even had fun picking outn girls for me than I did. She, years later, and one of my best friends, introduced me to my sweety that I am with at this time.

Women are less forgiving, because they bear a greater risk. In cases of sex, a woman bears a intimate knowledge of some of what sex CAN mean, and so it is more intimidating.

"What if she got the last good hard-on of his life,
"What if she got the "Glory, Glory!" I been preppin him for?"
"What if he "got her pregnant?"
"What if I know her?"
"What if she did all those things I never do?"

that kind of shit plays on their nerves like the way we can hardly imagine. They also, inwardly know, there are less men on this damn planet then women, and they better do what they can to make sure they get one to their own!

#12

Sounds like you got caught up IM...good luck son.

#13

QUOTE(AYHJA)Cause the older you get, the more you realize that there isn't much out there...Yeah, she may have a nicer ass, better legs, younger and all that...But she hasn't put in the work...She hasn't seen you through hard times...She hasn't picked up your dirty clothes or fed you...If your mate isn't quite what you want, FUCK all that shit about don't change nobody...

I love this AYHJA. That is great. I think that's the key right there....they haven't put the work into the relationship.

#14

cheating on something that only involves yourself, like a test, still hurts God because you are sacrificing developing the mind and work ethic God gave you for an easier route..

So actually I say all cheating is bad..

The kind of cheating thats ok isnt really cheating...like swipin a few extra hundreds when everyone at the monopoly table is getting drinks...who cares about that (unless you actually are cheating to win and not just doing it as a joke)..yall know what i mean..

#15

I guess you'd have to talk to your partner about this really. What if your woman wanted to be with another woman and let you watch. Is that cheating?

#16

^^

That's almost perfect...ALMOST...

#17

Haha...almost cause you haven't had that situation yet? Or almost, because I missed something else?

#18

QUOTE(luvbugin)I guess you'd have to talk to your partner about this really. What if your woman wanted to be with another woman and let you watch. Is that cheating?

That's not cheating...that's a favor =P~

#19

Lol, see...this is going to my point that it depends on your partner and their beliefs as well as yours

#20

QUOTE(luvbugin)Haha...almost cause you haven't had that situation yet? Or almost, because I missed something else?\"

Pooh...Almost, cause I just get to watch...I want to be right in the middle of it...

:-P