Posted: Fri Jan 07, 2005 10:41 pm
the reality of cheating, is in the unrefined state, the human sex drive is not "targeted" at a person, but a sexual urge. to consecrate a person to your own sexual contact, can really only go so far,.. but it is a sac red vow.
As far as people, humans have "carnal" tendencies to fuck, not marry. Marriage is a agreement, to hold each other sexually sacred. For some reason, it is socially oppressed. Technically, without being "sanctified" toward one another, you are "cheating", you just may not be promiscuous. It's ok, I "live in sin" with my girl,.. and god doesn't really care, but he doesn't let me live it down when i come to him about our problems.
Most people who are in relationships that "cheat" should just really be in open relationships, or get serious. they glorify their position, and it gives them a chance to not have to "address" real problems in their life. Me, I was in a "player-mode" for a minute in my past, and my girl (at the time) even had fun picking outn girls for me than I did. She, years later, and one of my best friends, introduced me to my sweety that I am with at this time.
Women are less forgiving, because they bear a greater risk. In cases of sex, a woman bears a intimate knowledge of some of what sex CAN mean, and so it is more intimidating.
"What if she got the last good hard-on of his life,
"What if she got the "Glory, Glory!" I been preppin him for?"
"What if he "got her pregnant?"
"What if I know her?"
"What if she did all those things I never do?"
that kind of shit plays on their nerves like the way we can hardly imagine. They also, inwardly know, there are less men on this damn planet then women, and they better do what they can to make sure they get one to their own!
As far as people, humans have "carnal" tendencies to fuck, not marry. Marriage is a agreement, to hold each other sexually sacred. For some reason, it is socially oppressed. Technically, without being "sanctified" toward one another, you are "cheating", you just may not be promiscuous. It's ok, I "live in sin" with my girl,.. and god doesn't really care, but he doesn't let me live it down when i come to him about our problems.
Most people who are in relationships that "cheat" should just really be in open relationships, or get serious. they glorify their position, and it gives them a chance to not have to "address" real problems in their life. Me, I was in a "player-mode" for a minute in my past, and my girl (at the time) even had fun picking outn girls for me than I did. She, years later, and one of my best friends, introduced me to my sweety that I am with at this time.
Women are less forgiving, because they bear a greater risk. In cases of sex, a woman bears a intimate knowledge of some of what sex CAN mean, and so it is more intimidating.
"What if she got the last good hard-on of his life,
"What if she got the "Glory, Glory!" I been preppin him for?"
"What if he "got her pregnant?"
"What if I know her?"
"What if she did all those things I never do?"
that kind of shit plays on their nerves like the way we can hardly imagine. They also, inwardly know, there are less men on this damn planet then women, and they better do what they can to make sure they get one to their own!