Am I a total sleazebag, an opportunist, or just damn lucky?

[deepdiver32073]

What DOES make her screwed in the head is that she chose D².

I posed that very question to her today... so far I haven't received a reply. I had told her that I know this won't in any way be a permanent thing, that I want her to be able to find herself a nice kinky young man eventually. But in the meantime... heh.

[jdog]

Why does that make her screwed in the head? Your statement appears to be based on your own judgements which are probably driven by your maleness... to keep the point simple, men are biologically driven to have sex for the replenishment of the species, and it is in our nature to seek the most fit females for baring offspring. (often this means YOUNGER)
Women are wired to seek stability, a provider, (most frequently associated with older men) and use sex to secure it.... so the natural drive is most often for men to seek younger, and women to seek older... Just because she is outside of the majority age difference bubble does not make her screwed in the head.

What DOES make her screwed in the head is that she chose D²..... =p~

The LAST thing I am trying to do when having sex is reproduce. Any idiot can make a baby. I surely don't seek out the MOST "fit" female for having sex with either. I look for a woman that has traits BEYOND just physical appearance that attracts me. Sorry, I can't sleep with a "hot" blonde that giggles like a hyena or smells like a pig.

You comparing us to animals is quite unreal. Given we are mammals but we have evolved as human beings with the actual ability to THINK with a brain. Hormones do compel us but the gift of LOGIC is what drives our life day in and day out.

Women are wired to seek stability? Tell that to the MANY women out there that have boyfriends in prison. Yep, that's some stability right there isn't it? All women like spending money, whether it is their own or a man's. An older man doesn't necessarily mean more money either. I know plenty of men older than I that make less money than I do. I could round up a group of 40+ year old construction workers for example and laugh as my paycheck tops each one.

Men seek younger? Nah, not really. The next woman I end up with I'd prefer to be more mature than the last one I was with. Younger generally means more immature and more prone to doing typical stupid immature things that I can't stand.

What DOES make her screwed up in the head? Well, she's banging a guy that is the same age as her father. I don't know, maybe she didn't have a father around so this is her typical screwed-up-childhood-desperate-for-male-attention thing that a LOT of young women do?

If D2 wants to have fun, then have some FUN! I am sure he has earned it throughout his journey in life. I'd just advise to be EXTREMELY wary. But I am sure he already knows that.

[Drew]

Well I just won't get into the stuff jdog is saying....it doesn't seem worth it.....


as far as DD goes.... If you were the one to like pursue her and start it all, that may be a little inappropriate....but shit if she's the one who started it....MORE POWER TO YOU! I know if I'm not married for whatever reason at your age (and there are plenty of reasons that may happen) I'd love to be in your position! lol.

Ain't nothing wrong with what you're doing!

[Skinny Bastard]

Sometimes the brick wall wins... not because it is right, hell, it isn't smarter than a brick... it wins because, well, it IS a brick wall.

I'm all for bangin' ... but not bangin my head when the point is lost on youth...

By the way, in a few weeks, I'll be hittin' it with a French woman who is 21 years younger than me... Don't you judge me...
...did I mention that she is French?

[AYHJA]

jdog...

Dude, my Mom is 51...You think for one second I'd be second guessing fucking Christie Brinkley, it is you, not we, who are screwed in the head, lol...

[jdog]

jdog...

Dude, my Mom is 51...You think for one second I'd be second guessing fucking Christie Brinkley, it is you, not we, who are screwed in the head, lol...

My mother is almost 60. Do you think I'd ever hook up with a 60 year old? Not in my lifetime would I even want to go there.

Christie Brinkley and even Sharon Stone are in their 50s. I honestly wouldn't waste my time with either of them. I'm not that desperate. Not saying that YOU are though.

In D2's case it's a 30 year difference. I'm sure he's having a great time and I have already said that. But that doesn't take away the fact that I think she's fucked in the head. Then again I can recall many young women in their early 20s hooking up with older married men like idiots.

I'll just say what I already said to D2 - watch your back. Nobody has to agree with me and nobody is wrong for not agreeing with me. It's my opinion like you guys have yours. Peace!

[deepdiver32073]

Trust me, I'm watching my back. But she has almost as much to lose as I do - her best friend. In fact, she probably has more to lose as I'll always be Maddie's father, but Stephanie could lose her as Maddie knows that Steph has a "crush" on me.

[AYHJA]

Again, the age difference isn't the issue for me...It's well documented why girls like older guys...I don't think 'fucked in the head' is an appropriate color for the situation, no matter what your opinion is...You seem to be content to over generalize the situation, which is cool, but not as clear a mound to stand on...She's an adult...She can put on a uniform and die for her country, get plastered in a bar, or fuck a good looking guy in great shape who happens to be much older than her...

What DOES make her screwed up in the head? Well, she's banging a guy that is the same age as her father. I don't know, maybe she didn't have a father around so this is her typical screwed-up-childhood-desperate-for-male-attention thing that a LOT of young women do?

Whatever it is you do to earn that big paycheck of yours, it sure isn't psychology...

Most people like what they like Bro, that's a safer conclusion to arrive at until you know more information...If I meet a girl that is smart, attractive, mature, sexy, and all the things that I like in a woman, but she happens to be 19 or 49, I'm not giving a fuck...Maybe you're turning down pussy left and right, but the majority of us, even if we are handsome, successful, and willing, just aren't that damn lucky...

DD has caught hell when it comes to relationships, as has been well documented...I think its about time the guy caught a fucking break man...It's not like he's posted up on campus stalking young trim...This situation fell into his lap...You almost kinda have to be happy for him on GP...

[deepdiver32073]

She's stated to me that most of the guys her age are generally immature (I know I was at that age) and don't seem to care what she wants or needs. She likes to get physical with guys she's interested in... that is, she likes to wrestle with them, punch them up a bit sort of like we guys did when we were 11 or 12 and interested in a girl but didn't really know how to express it. In the past, when she's gotten physical with a guy, it's been like, "Owww, you're hurting me. You're not supposed to do that, you're a girl." When I responded in kind, she said she immediately got wet and wanted me from the get-go. That was 3 years ago. She kept it pretty close to her vest, knowing the repercussions if she opened herself to me as she didn't know if felt the same way toward her.

Out in the open, in front of Maddie, we kept to the usual, wrestling, insulting, etc. behavior we've had up till now. But those last nights they were here, after Maddie went to bed and I went outside to have my last ciggie before bed, she'd come out with me and we'd caress each other like we both wanted and needed to.

That last night, after the last cig, we went back inside; Maddie was asleep, but the bedroom door was open. We sat on the couch and talked low for a while, then she laid down away from me, pulled her panties to the side and said, "Fuck me now." What's a horny, red-blooded American guy to do, no matter what his age? Considering it's been a dry spell of close to 2 years, of course my "little head" was doing the thinking! God, it was good. And yes, I'm looking to get as much as I can before it inevitably ends. Don't know when or how, but I am going to be up there for their Fall break in October. Heh.

[AYHJA]

then she laid down away from me, pulled her panties to the side and said, "Fuck me now."

Are you fucking kidding me..?!?! Dude, 99.999% of men in your position (jdog is the lone exception, lol) would have beat that pussy to SLEEP...!!!!!!!!! Man, the only thing I wouldn't do if I were you, is to assume that its just all clean fun...I wouldn't even be expecting it to end...I'd be expecting to stamp that pussy every single time it needed it from here until eternity...And she likes it a bit rough..? Dude, that's just the workout you've been needing...Let that little filly whip you in to fucking shape...

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Go deepdiver, go deepdiver, go deepdiver go!

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