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You know .... I am not

I thougth about it and i have even had offers, but i dont want frow away it all,or get all hung up with someone elese.

After she's over there for a couple months, you should go over there and propose to her in Europe. Unique and great place to do it. YOu've got to know the right timing though. If she's too caught up in the lifestyle, then she may not want to leave. But I'm pretty sure she would marry you if you have been together for that long.

Good luck mate. If you can later on, maybe surprise her with a visit while she's over in Europe. And of course, before she leaves tell her you have something important to ask her when she comes back.


Maybe she already wants to marry you, but wants to get this out of her system before she makes a long-term commitment. Then both of you can party about together.

Dear Stranded in Jealousy,

if she's a model, you have to get over the jealousy or you'll go nuts,.. What you going to do, a model's job is an extension of image as sex. damn.

she'll prolly end up on one of these fools harddrive's you know? maybe on the forum (in the bikini lounge or ???)

the real thing is you have to ask yourself "has she given you a reason to make you suspect she would not come back to you, and keep you safe and informed about her heart in the matter?" Cause damn, when all is said and done, until you commit, you are free. so is she. and it don't look like you have the commitment. (which is really made known by the Promise, now known as the Engagement)

The only way to consider what to do is to get in touch with your feelings, and make it happen... whatever the cost.

But you have to aks yourself is it you want to be with her, or you are afraid you will never find someone better? Neither is true.

She is perfect for you now, but people change. At another time in your life, as each of you change you will grow together IF you are together. If not, you have no standard for your growth, or you will not grow, for fear of losing her. either is very dangerous for the ,mind and the heart.

She will grow in the six months or longer she is gone. Have you asked her how she plans to grow in that time, and how she plans to stay in contact.

Me, I'd say - something to this effect.

"I know you feel you have to do this, for your self, but you gotta give me some kind of sign to stay with. I moved for my work, and you did not come with me. It's not like a model can't easily relocate. In fact, you could have moved with me, but you didn't. Perhaps I did not let you know I wanted you to. Please don't go yet. We need to affirm our relationship, I am insecure. It may be my own decision in which I moved away from you, or it may be the fact I know there is a world of opportunity in europe for a gorgeous and beautiful girl such as you. In fact, I am so insecure about this, I am asking stangers online for advice, (and then i would laugh.)"

Plain and simple, If she doesn't laugh with you, at that point, she is hiding something.

It may not be bad, it may be her own insecurity, or a secret desire of how her trip will go. but she is hiding something.

God's gifts are mysteries, and God's greatest gift to man was woman.

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