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I agree with you guys (DareDevil & raum)... chatting with the girl at the post office or something doesn't really mean anything. I can't really explain it, but I know what you guys mean. I've done it a couple times, not even noticing... lol

But if your girl is flirting with your friends... I think that's a different story, and I wouldn't really like that... it wouldn't matter if it was my girl doing the flirting, or my friend's girl...

Some is being flirting. Some of the cashiers at the grocery store see me a couple times a week so it's like "Hey baby! We've got to stop meeting like this or the wife will start to wonder!" Everyone knows there's nothing going on, just fun, but the words are flirty. If you asked me afterward if I had flirted, I'd probably say yes and they would too, but it's a different kind of flirting. I do the same sort of thing with girls at work. They know I'm married, most of them are too. It's just a fun way to break up the day. We all know there's a line you can't cross (Hello, HR, I'd like to report some sexual harassment...) but everyone I deal with knows where that line is.

Yea, I was just out at a restaraunt and was having a good convo with the waitress. She was really hot but I really don't consider it flirting. I was just trying to make your day better. I wouldn't have minded getting something from her...oh wait...maybe I was flirting then

Everyone notice that what they call flirting, involves yourself and a stranger, and not you friends GF..?

Hmmm, I think I may be on to something...........

That's true. I don't flirt with friend's girlfriends/wives/SOs... hot or not. It's just not cool.

QUOTE(raum)really, you live in a bleak world ruff.

I don't think of it as bleak... rather I am conservative in my views on such matters. Flirting is not ok withme if you are dating. I mean hell, why date then? If you are unhappy with the person, dump them and move on. If you are willing to disrespect the person by flirting with other people to gauge/test the waters, then the relationship is doomed anyway is it not?

All guys think 3-somes would be awesome, but in reality I think I would turn it down. Why... is the one I am with now not enough? If so, why stay with her? If not, why do I want something else? Sounds like the person flirting is lacking either self-respect, or attention, or just isn't happy.