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People say love is blind, but I say that's bullshit...

The topic: How much weight do you think your spouse could gain before it started to affect your relationship..? I have dated women of all colors, shapes, and sizes...I am not too particular on who I like, if I find you attractive, I just do...

But how does change play into all of that..? You meet a girl and lets say when you meet her, She's 5'9", 130 pounds....Lets say, the same build as ASC...



Lets not pretend that's a hot ass Playmate either, lets just say that's a regular, hot babe that for some reason found your ugly ass attractive and entered into a serious relationship with you...Or, you can use your current SO, and how they compared to when you first met them till now, don't matter...

What's an acceptable amount of weight that can be lost or gained before you not only start to take notice, but it affects your relationship..? Also assuming that we're not talking about any extraordinary health issues being the cause, other than eating more or less...

I may need some help on this, but I think for talking women, its easier to discuss sizes...

For example, I think a woman ASC's size probably wears about a size 6 - 8 jeans...After a 10 to 15 pound gain, she might wear an 8 - 10, 20 pounds is probably about size 10 - 14 or so...Someone that wears a 16 or up, depending on frame at least, is probably going to be healthy, probably a little to healthy even for me...Maybe SB can help us out here, since we know how big she is...

Well...I'm about 5'6", 100 or so lbs...I used to wear about a size 1-3 pants, but I'm pretty sure the Freshman 15 is fast approaching, since those jeans don't fit anymore, and now I'm up to around a size 5, which fits comfortably, with a little extra room in the waist and legs....

love is blind but always hearing what the eyes have to say

For me, if she looked like ASC, 5-10 pounds

Difficult question... I wouldn't date a girl who was Paris Hilton skinny, and I wouldn't date a heavy set girl, either. I'd like someone in the middle.

I'd say 10-15 pounds might be a problem. I wouldn't say, "I'm dumping you bitch because you've become a cow." But I'd probably say something to her. Once she reaches the 15-20 pound area, then it's definitely a problem. She'd have to choose between me or the fries. lol

This has been a sting created by the AYJHA network. All of the results will now be delivered to your SO within 24 hours. Thanks for playing! CDR!


I don't know man, chicks carry their weight differently. I'm probably a size 4-6 kind of guy, with an 8 being tolerable, above an 8 would be a cause for a kick in the ASS! Smaller than a 4 and you're cutting yourself on hip bones and stuff.

So, my vote was 15-20, but still kinda depends on where you start and how they carry it. If it's all carried in the belly: problems! If there are some breasts and ass: I'm ok with that!

P.S. Is this research for that perfect woman ratio, or equation, or what ever you were working on?

QUOTE(Kramer @ Oct 30 2006, 04:06 PM) Once she reaches the 15-20 pound area, then it's definitely a problem. She'd have to choose between me or the fries. lol

Bro, wheneeeeever you figure out what you're gonna say, please, let me know...everything I can come up with would get me fucked up, lol...

Funny you would mention the freshman 15, SB...Most girls fill out their freshman year, usually due to an increase in sexual activity...I've helped a few babes to that freshman 15... :evil:

LoL @ iMNO and the sting operation..!

Nah, I think I've already decided that Monica Bellucci is the perfect chick, but I'm open to suggestions, lol...I'm just curious, because I know chicks gain weight for a variety of reasons, and I'm wondering how other guys cope with that...I have gained weight myself, but I'm anly about 15 pounds over what I've always been since high scool or so...I could stand to loose a few, but all of my clothes still fit, I haven't bought a new wardrobe in at least 8 years...

But chicks man, good luck finding one that can still fit her high school shit, so the scale has the be a little different for them I'm thinking...

QUOTE(AYHJA @ Oct 30 2006, 02:24 PM) People say love is blind, but I say that's bullshit...

The topic: How much weight do you think your spouse could gain before it started to affect your relationship..? I have dated women of all colors, shapes, and sizes...I am not too particular on who I like, if I find you attractive, I just do...

But how does change play into all of that..? You meet a girl and lets say when you meet her, She's 5'9", 130 pounds....Lets say, the same build as ASC...



Lets not pretend that's a hot ass Playmate either, lets just say that's a regular, hot babe that for some reason found your ugly ass attractive and entered into a serious relationship with you...Or, you can use your current SO, and how they compared to when you first met them till now, don't matter...

What's an acceptable amount of weight that can be lost or gained before you not only start to take notice, but it affects your relationship..? Also assuming that we're not talking about any extraordinary health issues being the cause, other than eating more or less...

I may need some help on this, but I think for talking women, its easier to discuss sizes...

For example, I think a woman ASC's size probably wears about a size 6 - 8 jeans...After a 10 to 15 pound gain, she might wear an 8 - 10, 20 pounds is probably about size 10 - 14 or so...Someone that wears a 16 or up, depending on frame at least, is probably going to be healthy, probably a little to healthy even for me...Maybe SB can help us out here, since we know how big she is...


It would matter to me how it would affect their health, if they lost more than 12 kilograms, or put it on.
If they were eating more, then you know I know ways to help them lose it.... /wink.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=";)" border="0" alt="wink.gif" />
If they were eating less and lost 12 kilos, that would definitely concern me alot. When women get too skinny, way too skinny, they aren't as healthy, and to me I'd find that unnattractive. That's why I like
more "cuddlier" type women like Amy Sue Cooper & Erica Campbell, their curves and physique are a sign of their health, which equates to attractiveness. I'd be doing my damnest to lace everything with tonnes
of butter that goes into their mouths (yes, EVERYthing....), whatever I could do to bring their weight back up to normal.

So there ya go, it wouldn't worry me too much until it got to that 12 kilo point. Much more concerned if it was -12 than +12.... But I wouldn't just drop them flat over that..

Love is blind!

Lust, however, can see a cold hardened nipple at a thousand yards! :evil:

having survived 4 pregnancies and the weight gains / losses that come with them... (hers and mine lol)
I look back at some of our old pics and think, holy cow, (no pun intended) you were really that big? ... I didn't even notice it at the time...

Notice that I said I only think that, I most certainly would never utter those words out loud... lol

I might also point out to all of you how good Salma Hayek looked with her curvy weight gain for her role in Ask The Dust. I didn't hear any complaints from any of you about how she looks/looked....