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It is wrong to cheat period. That's all there is too it.

lol...no, I get out.

It was just a quick response.

Cheating is wrong. Men shouldn't do that to women and vice versa. The women are harder to forgive because they are more emotional and want someone to be there for them all the time. Men, on the other hand, aren't as emotional and can "get around" and not feel bad about it.

There...a longer explanation.

But what about the rules to cheating are they right or wrong????

Shit yall..

The truth to this has nothing to do with cheating...

It has to do with doing something to benefit yourself that harms others, who are God, since God is in them and created them..

Once you start to understand that, cheating, stealing, and other things just dont seem to relate to right/wrong..

For it is obvious, unless you choose to blatently want to disrespect your Creator..

I wont say anything is wrong, just what is wrong for me. "Cheating" is only wrong in a sense where it harms God through the breath of life that He uses to embed his existance in all of us (which is essentially all kinds of cheating, to different degrees..harming yourself counts too here)

Cheating on a test..I dont see whats so bad about that except it enforces laziness and irresponsibilty...but no one is harmed by cheating on a test, at least not in the sense I spoke of earlier..

I know that sounds bad, but im just looking at it honestly, not spitting the thoughts of my parents and teachers through myself..

^^man...that's deep. I agree with you.

If you want to respect and honor your Creator, you'll know what is right and wrong.

Great job Deeje!

Is this Social Relativity Again..?

LoL...I'm fuckin' missing my calling..! I really, really need to get that shit printed, or see if someone else has done it...Good God, that shit is potent in all instances..!

I don't believe in cheating...

Simply put, if you've ever said to yourself, "You get what you deserve," or, "God doesn't put anything on you that you can't handle," then this is what you get...

You get life whipping your words in front of you, the very thing that you hold others too...You get a chance to see how hard or how easy it is, when the shoe is on the other foot...That same ruler you hold to the face of other people, is then held in your own...

Life is Learning, indeed...But, you just have to learn to pick your lessons...

As I said earlier, your perspective of the world is unique to you...How you react to a stimulus, is your own unique reaction...Nobody can force you, as you can't force anybody, to react to something as you would...

In regards to being unfaithful, it is simply a matter of communication, or lack thereof...Do you love you mate enough to do EVERYTHING that they want..? Or lack the ways to tell them that they can't..? Alls it takes is a conversation...

Since I'm a man, I can only speak on behalf of men in general...But, I know we are lazy as shit...I know that it is more work than wished, to try and carry out two relationships...I don't think it is worth it...I want a woman that understands me, and my kinky freaky ideas or whatever, and does her best to accomodate them...I personally don't want to have to deal with the stress...I want to learn to be happy with who I have...

Cause the older you get, the more you realize that there isn't much out there...Yeah, she may have a nicer ass, better legs, younger and all that...But she hasn't put in the work...She hasn't seen you through hard times...She hasn't picked up your dirty clothes or fed you...If your mate isn't quite what you want, FUCK all that shit about don't change nobody...

If you love me, like I love you, then we should want to be everything to that person...Find the will to harness unconditional love, and do it...It takes a love of yourself, to do this...It means that you take pride in saying, "I normally wouldn't do this, but I did it for my mate..." It means, that if you say what you belive, "We get what is coming to us," then a mate that disregards that, will get plenty...

Doing that is HARD...But what do you want that comes easy..?

i got no time to answer this one yet, i'm on vacation

Why does the woman almost never forgive the man: I think its becuase we don't want to get hurt again...its a suck ass feeling.

Why do men always find it so easy to forgive the woman: Because they probably did it already themselves or find it a good excuse to go out and do it. Then they can be like "well, you did it, why can't I?"

What excuses do you give for cheating: Pure selfishness. People cheat cause they don't care about hurting others.

does that make it right: hell no

name one time you cheated were you right: I've never cheated...my goal is to never cheat...that's why Ayhja stays waaaaaayyy across the country.

If he/she is rich do you do it: Does this go to the indecent proposal thread?