Am I a total sleazebag, an opportunist, or just damn lucky?

[deepdiver32073]

OK, here's the scenario... 2 weeks ago, my kids came down to visit. Madeleine brought her roommate whom I've met before on several occasions. We (Stephanie and I) have had a weird relationship almost from the beginning. She likes to wrestle and "fight", I don't back down; so when she challenged me ("c'mon old man, scared to take on a girl?") I took her up on it, pinned her (several times), and generally "dominated" her. Turns out she likes that a lot!

This last week, all 3 of us would be watching DVDs together, under a blanket (AC was cold), when I'd feel her hand sliding up my thigh. I'm no dummy, so I know a come-on when I feel one. I reciprocated and things were left that way that first evening. The next evening, with my daughter on one side of Stephanie and I on the other, Stephanie grabs my hand and slides it over her tit, under her shirt and bra. I'm thinking "Holy Shit! Here's this 21 year old making a MAJOR pass at me at 52.

Long story short, the night before they left to go back to college, she and I screwed our brains out on the living room couch while my daughter slept in the bedroom next door. Ever since she got back to college, Stephanie has been texting me telling me what she wants me to do to her and vice versa. There is no "long term" to this; it's just a couple of consenting adults making use of each other to scratch an itch.

I see lots of bad things possibly coming from this which I'm sure you will all ably point out. Trust me, I've thought of them all. But DAMN, it makes this old guy feel good. LOL I'm sure this is just a little fling that'll fizzle out in it's own time if allowed to continue. I'm also sure that if my daughter EVER finds out, there'll be HELL to pay.

Comments, suggestions, adulations, even flames are welcome.

[darklighter1]

SHEESH!! Dear Penthouse Forum, You'll never believe this but....

That is some itch you're scratching man!

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From the outset of your initial outline, I thought your story was going to veer into the "threesome" category; as I read further on, by God am I glad that it didn't, because there are only three persons mentioned in your entire post, and one of them was your daughter. :|

Good for you: nice job getting better acquainted with your daughter's school friend. Always better safe than sorry when you are dealing with knowing who your daughter hangs out; she could be a stripper, or an illegal crossbow dealer... you need to know these things, man.

What kind of tricks can a few years removed teenager girl do? Did you write it down? I'd be very happy to know this, 'cause I haven't the slightest clue. :laff:

[trashtalkr]

Well I'll take the dissenting view (big surprise there, right?) on this one. To me, this shows absolute disrespect to your daughter - you aren't respecting her or her friends. There needs to be a healthy boundary between a dad and his kids (and their friends) and you definitely crossed that. I'm sorry DD....you know I like ya....but this is kind of disgusting

[AYHJA]

First off...DL1...Man you must never EVER take another lengthy LOA like that again...Dude, you are priceless, lol...

Secondly...tt...I love you like a brother...You know this be true...But...Fuuuuuck that man..!

DD....You are living a man's dream...TT, we've all met DD's daughter...She's far from stupid...You don't think her friend said something to her about it..? I mean, I could be wrong, but c'mon man..! You know at least once she's let some shit slip out, maybe even brushed it off as joking but...Dude...Girls are way, way fucking smarter than us...Especially when it comes to shit like this...This is almost directly related to my last thread in this forum..! OMFGTFF man...

DD...You and we go back like smelling liquid paper to get high...Man, if there is grass on the field, play ball, and if it were me, I'd be doing the same shit...You've been through hell in relationships, please teach that little filly a thing or two for all of AF's sake..!

2ITP1ITS..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Aemeth]

Considering I am 30 years younger than you, I don't feel it is my place to say yea or nay. All I will say is that I would be opposed if you came on to her, but it sounds like she is initiating everything, and while she may or may not be confused about what she wants, she is old enough to make her own decisions. So I don't know what to tell ya.

One more thing. IF Ty is wrong, and your daughter doesn't know...That is going to be an awkward conversation for the ages :)

[Skinny Bastard]

you should make this a poll question.... but my response would be the same...
damn lucky.

enjoy the ride while it lasts or until yer parts fall right off...

[jdog]

She sounds screwed in the head for seeking out a man that is as old as her father if not older. But if all you want is a piece of ass then go for it. Just CYA so it doesn't ever come back around to bite you. Women can be evil.

[Skinny Bastard]

She sounds screwed in the head for seeking out a man that is as old as her father if not older. But if all you want is a piece of ass then go for it. Just CYA so it doesn't ever come back around to bite you. Women can be evil.

Why does that make her screwed in the head? Your statement appears to be based on your own judgements which are probably driven by your maleness... to keep the point simple, men are biologically driven to have sex for the replenishment of the species, and it is in our nature to seek the most fit females for baring offspring. (often this means YOUNGER)
Women are wired to seek stability, a provider, (most frequently associated with older men) and use sex to secure it.... so the natural drive is most often for men to seek younger, and women to seek older... Just because she is outside of the majority age difference bubble does not make her screwed in the head.

What DOES make her screwed in the head is that she chose D²..... =p~

[darklighter1]

She sounds screwed in the head for seeking out a man that is as old as her father if not older. But if all you want is a piece of ass then go for it. Just CYA so it doesn't ever come back around to bite you. Women can be evil.

Why does that make her screwed in the head? Your statement appears to be based on your own judgements which are probably driven by your maleness... to keep the point simple, men are biologically driven to have sex for the replenishment of the species, and it is in our nature to seek the most fit females for baring offspring. (often this means YOUNGER)
Women are wired to seek stability, a provider, (most frequently associated with older men) and use sex to secure it.... so the natural drive is most often for men to seek younger, and women to seek older... Just because she is outside of the majority age difference bubble does not make her screwed in the head.

What DOES make her screwed in the head is that she chose D²..... =p~

Yeah I thought that was a little harsh from JDog too. We don't know what the situation was other than filthiness....good old fashioned....filthiness...ahhhh...the dirty.