A few leaves of absences

#1

Aight..
I am going to be taking leaves of absences here and there (quite often) but I will be around. Right now, I am bouncing around from house to house. The story:

On tuesday, me and my dad had gotten into a "fight" or an altercation(sp?) for better terms. Basically, he tried choking me and since I respect my dad a lot, I did not swing on him or anything. Just threw him off of him. After 2 more attempts to choke me, I told him I ain't tolerating it anymore. We kept our arguing, and he told me to get out. I told him no and that I live there too. He was like if you don't leave I will call the cops. I was like Go ahead. He was like You don't want to goto jail. You will not like it. I replies I know I won't and I don't want to go but I am not leaving willingly. Of course that whole conversation had a few swear words as well. But you get the point. SO I kept calling him a Pussy and he called the cops. I told him he better hurry up and get the weed plants out of our house before the police get there and see them, of course they just threw them outside on the lawn (of course, out of sight) Then the police came. Made me leave and if I didn't wouldn't went to Jail for Domestic Violence. Of course I left and now I am not welcomed in my house unless a plan on another altercation to happen. So right now I am jumping around from roof to roof for a couple weeks. So until then, you will see me at least once a week.

Just thought I shall fill you in. Peace.

#2

that sucks, man...

you might wanna swing at the next man that tries to choke you. if it were me, he'd lose fingers, dad or not.

choking someone is a death threat. i don't take that lightly.

peace on yo adventures... and here's to the home you have yet to discover... YOUR OWN.

Ch

#3

You are a better man than me, for I would try to beat the shit out of any man that tried to choke me...

Seeing as that we only know what you told us though, I won't reserve judgement...Just want you to be safe, pretty much...If you can't get online or will be gone for a while, call me man, fax me, whatever just so that we can be sure you are alright if you're not posting...

Godspeed young man, stay positive and keep your chin up...

#4

I can kind of relate man. I have restrained myself many times from swinging my fists on my dad for the basic reason that my mom had stopped me on many occasions and I even told my dad that he would be burried in the back yard if it wasnt for my mom. So man I can relate to some extent. You didnt do anything wrong and even if you did throw in a few swings that wouldnt be anything wrong either. But yeah man stay postive and keep your chin up.

#5

Take care of yourself, man. This whole thing really sucks, I know, but you are/were the bigger man for not retaliating. I'm just surprised that YOU were the one being choked and yet they threatened YOU with DV!?! That's so wrong. I know, down here in FL, your dad would be the one in jail if you had any sort of mark on you. It wouldn't be your call, the cops would've hauled him away.

The main thing though is you're safe. Stay that way. We value your presence here and your posts, but we'd rather not hear from you and know that you're OK, than to see similar posts to this every day.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

#6

Take care of yourself and be safe. I wish you the best of luck. I'll be praying for you

#7

Thanks everyone...
For the most part, everything is going swell...
I've slept indoors everyday and everything and many people offering me a place to stay. So I think I will do just fine...

#8

That's great that you have friends that's got your back. I hope you'll be able to clean things up with your pops