Were you an accident..?

#1

I'm curious to know if any of us know how we got here, aka, when we were concieved by our parents...I was an immaculate conception, my mom got pregnant the first go round as a freshman at Jackson State University, a college I later went to when I was 18...Went to the room and everything, it was pretty cool...Definitley and uplanned pregnancy though...

Any of you guys know how you came to be..?

Bot · #2

I probably was considering I was born exactly a year after my sister. LOL

#3

Actually, I was concieved about two years after my parents were married. They divorced about 2 months later.

I would love to tell you what happend, but both of my parents have pretty conflicting stories and neither one of them includes half of the things that resulted from my own searches into their personal pasts. Ironically, I can tell you five names of people i was related to who left Israel after the sacking of the first Temple... but I can not tell you where my parents spent their honeymoon.

My mom thinks my dad is a piece of shit and she was a stupid little girl trying to make her parents mad by marrying an enemy of the family, who was the road captain of a biker gang. He never paid child support, and I had to hunt him down when i was 15. According to my mom, he was an accident, not me.

My dad thinks my mom and him used to be in love, and things just didn't work out. According to my dad, I was not an accident, but I was a complete suprise.

Both of the divorced again and are married again. My mom has been married 4 times, and my dad 3. Far as I am concerned, I have far better things to worry about ~ such as MY happiness.

#4

I'm similar to RAUM.
My parents divorced before I was born. I didn't see my dad until I was 6. He never made an effort to see me or my older brother until then. I think he only made the effort because of his new wife. She is an incredible woman and I love her like my bio mother. She was married to my dad and had 2 other boys with him. We are all very close. My dad, for some unknown reason, decided about a year after my youngest brother graduated HS that he was done being married and he divorced my step-mom. That was about 2 years ago. I'm closer to my step-mom than to my dad. He's only 56 years old, so maybe it's a midlife crisis thing. Don't know.... I do know that I'm learning from his mistakes. I've been married almost 10 years to my first and only wife. We have 2 kids, ages 6 and 9, and they were definately both surprises, but not accidents. Coming from a broken family has made me even more determined to keep mine together. Hasn't always been a picnic and it's a lot of work, but I don't think I'd change a thing.......well, maybe a few things (like if I could be really rich or something).... /smile.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":)" border="0" alt="smile.gif" />

#5

I think most people are/were accidents. IMO if you aren't planned then you are/were an accident. My parents weren't trying to have another kid. They already had my brother.

#6

I have an older sister so i discard the accident issue but i was concieved in februray, that's what makes me suspect i was the rotten fruit of a Baco influenced carnival night at the beach.

#7

Nope, I am second and my sister was born almost two years after my parents got married.

#8

I wasn't planned.
My mom was 16. My dad was 18 or something. They were a highschool couple that did drugs and shit. They were the bad kids. Not the cool kids. I was the first. Followed behind me was 3 brothers. They got married 10 years after they had me then 6 months after being married, they divorced cause they ewre already a rocky couple. Drugs, Affairs, Jealousy and shit. Then my mom had my sister with a diff. guy. And then another brother with the same guy . RIP though cause he passed away in 2002. (only 3 months old).. And now my mom is pregant with a black dude and I don't like that cause as much as I'd like to say I'm not at all racist, I am a bit racist as I believe in no interracial dating/pregnancys and shit.. esp. when its in my family. But eh... So that's my story.

#9

For your own personal sake, that's not a racism, that's a prejudice, and we all have them...The struggle is to overcome them, like it or love it, you will be brother to a baby that is going to need all the help and support they can get...

#10

Not really..
It'll die soon anyways..
My mom has Hepatitis C and who the fuck knows what else.. and on otp of that, an addict to weed and heroin and anything she can get her hands onto..
So I don't have to be a brother to it.. /wink.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=";)" border="0" alt="wink.gif" />