Sex Problems I Need Help With

[Drew]

For one of the first times in the history of this site, jdog and I may be in complete agreement lol.

Keep in mind, and I know he said this, but it probably needs to be co-signed on so it doesn't just seem like he's bitter, that everything he said comes from his direct experience. Most men probably have similar experiences if they're being real and not convinced into thinking they're getting what they want from a woman.


I hope you don't take offense to this, but you do seem a bit naive. The contrast between complete naivety and what comes off as complete jaded bitterness is hilarious, but really is just a manifestation of the difference in experience. I think if you take what jdog said to heart, you'll be much better off and more prepared for real relationships with females, not just basing it on what you've read in books, seen in movies or on tv. Now I'm not saying you live your life based on those mediums, but you'd be surprised how much of an effect reading or seeing things has on your ability to conceive how things should be if you haven't personally experienced them.

The main point is just to be careful and try to remain level and clear headed. It's really, really, really easy to get caught up in a piece of ass and not realize that you're being used, not getting what you really want/need, or are just plain unhappy. The mind is a powerful thing, capable of convincing you of many things. When it comes to women: it's almost never as good as it seems. Just be careful and suspicious. I think some good women do exist, but all women have the ability to convince you that they're "the one" if you get caught up not being careful and not thinking.

[jdog]

Well, I always try to tell myself that there are probably SOME good women out there. The problem is that 99.9% of them aren't and I really don't want to waste the rest of my life guessing which ones are and which ones aren't.

You only live your life once so at some point you need to ask yourself are you a giver or are you a taker?

Do you want to get married and end up legal property of a woman? If women can't even trust each other are you going to trust one with your property? With your life?

Hell fucking no...

[deepdiver32073]

I'm going to bypass jdog's post... not that I don't agree with SOME of what he posted, but that's not the information you're looking for.

EVERY woman I've been with (and I've been with quite a few in my 53 years) has enjoyed my going down on her. It's one of MY favorite things to do as well (hence my screen name). I don't think about her cleanliness any more than I expect she's thinking about mine... when you start getting to the point that you know you're going to get to that wonderful event, all other thoughts disappear (at least for me).

If, however, you are concerned about cleanliness and want to suggest a shower, you may want to try saying something like, "I've had a bit of a sweaty day and really would like to take a shower before we get intimate and I'd really love it if you'd like to join me." Nothing better than a load of wet, slippery fun together in the shower!

Finally, do your best not to "think" about what you're doing, just experience it and enjoy yourself. She'll enjoy it a lot more too if you're relaxed and having fun.

Bon appetit!

[jdog]

I'm going to bypass jdog's post... not that I don't agree with SOME of what he posted, but that's not the information you're looking for.

The problem is that the pussy is attached to the woman. So if you want to deal with the pussy you must also deal with the woman. Every man could use some good advice when it comes to women, not just sexual advice.

Edit - If Habib wants some proof? This is Linda Hogan's (Hulk Hogan's ex-wife) boat name:

[luvbugin]

Wow. Quite the interesting little posts we've got going here. Habib, I totally understand where you're coming from. I don't understand how you guys do it. I could never be a lesbian. Gross. Maybe its something you'll get more comfortable with as time goes. Maybe you'll get to a point (possibly not with this lady) where you WANT to and don't care what's going on down there. As for the cynics about the womenfolk, not all women are the same. But, no one is perfect and you can't expect every woman to be. You men certainly aren't.

Just do what you are comfortable with. You don't want this to end up being a bad experience so just enjoy what feels right and don't do anything you aren't okay with until you want to.

[jdog]

Here you go Habib, make sure that you are aware of this: http://www.wesh.com/news/23991233/detail.html

Local police are planning to discuss Tuesday morning the recent spike in false rape being reported.

The 18-year-old has been arrested after confessing when she was questioned about the details of the case.

The arrest report states that Renford told detectives she found her boyfriend cheating on her. So, she took his car and intentionally crashed it.

The report states Renford hoped if her boyfriend found out she was raped, he'd take her back and be nicer to her.

The brilliance of the woman mind...

[Habib]

EVERY woman I've been with (and I've been with quite a few in my 53 years) has enjoyed my going down on her. It's one of MY favorite things to do as well (hence my screen name).

LoL you crack me up sir.

Habib, I totally understand where you're coming from. I don't understand how you guys do it. I could never be a lesbian. Gross.

I am so glad a woman understands me on this one. It is a tough thing to do. I really want to do it and it is in my wildest hopes to do something that will please a girl sexually you know? It is just that I want to do it on my own (psychological) terms.

Thank you guys so much though for the input. It is very much well appreciated.

Btw, does anyone know how girls clean up after they do a #2? I always always always take a shower. I am not sure for girls though.

[Habib]

LoL jdog, we cannot really use just this one example to judge women. There are so many women out there that this is not happening to.

[jdog]

LoL jdog, we cannot really use just this one example to judge women. There are so many women out there that this is not happening to.

I just gave you like 10 names of women who had no money until they married a celebrity, are now divorced and getting MILLIONS in alimony.

Heck, there's a show on Bravo called "The Millionare Matchmaker" which is all about a gold digger who hooks other gold diggers up with rich men.

You can look at Kobe Bryant, Ben Roethlisberger, three people on the Duke lacrosse team, etc for those that were falsely accused of rape. In the long run those women only wanted money. False rape accusations are so common that police are threatening to file criminal charges on women who do it! Tila Tequila falsely claimed that Shawne Merriman choked her! Here, check out how common it is: http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&sour ... false+rape

Look, I know you came here just looking for advise on eating pussy but I decided to give you a lot more just so that you are informed. I wish someone had told me these things when I was younger, honestly.

[Habib]

jdog, how many percent of women do this? I will be willing to bet that it is less than 15% and most of it will probably be in the USA.