Marriage.

#1

I don't want to bore you with my thoughts on the topic of marriage just yet because I don't want to contaminate your thoughts and what not.

I would like married, divorced, and single people to respond. Please state which you are. If you are single, but long term relationship then you can put that in there. lol

So.

1. Tell me what you think about marriage on your best day.
2. Tell me what you think about marriage on your worst day.
3. If you are married would you go back and get married now (if you knew then what you know now)?
4. Would you advise marriage?

#2

1. Tell me what you think about marriage on your best day.

As I am alpha male, I don't or don't recognize ups/downs pertaining to being married...To me, marriage is monotony at its finest...It's either one way, or the other to me, and if its not bad, then its good...

2. Tell me what you think about marriage on your worst day.

I'm convinced that women are just emotional wrecks...And if she has a fucked up day at work, you're likely to have a fucked up day at home...I am sure there are vice versa aspects to it, but from my perspective, this is how it goes...However, I will say that its been my experience that if its not one thing, its another...Marriage is a straight line, as opposed to when you're single, you kinda have highs and lows...

3. If you are married would you go back and get married now (if you knew then what you know now)?

Sure, why not..? All the same roads to the same place...Although, if I didn't have a Son to raise, I may answer this question differently...

4. Would you advise marriage?

Not if you don't have any kids...There's no need...There's nothing marriage affords you that shacking won't...Not a single thing...If anything, you'd be out a shitload of cash to pay for a wedding...

#3

1. Tell me what you think about marriage on your best day.

On my best day...marriage is the perfect match for what I am, where I am, and where we are going.

2. Tell me what you think about marriage on your worst day.

Marriage and what comes with it is what gets me through my worst day.

3. If you are married would you go back and get married now (if you knew then what you know now)?

Yup. Love my wife. Love my life and feel that had I not met her, I wouldn't be where I am (both professionally and emotionally) today. She has gone through it all with me.....thick, thin and everything in between.

4. Would you advise marriage?

Anyone that asks that question, ain't ready to commit to what it takes to be married. Keep trolling.

#4

1. Tell me what you think about marriage on your best day.
On my best day, marriage is a complete union of heart, soul, and mind. There is no gap in communication, and everything is running on greased rails.

2. Tell me what you think about marriage on your worst day.
On my worst day, marriage is a realization of all you hoped for that you will never realize because for whatever reason, the person you're chained to cannot begin to understand you or your goals or the problems you're having.

3. If you are married would you go back and get married now (if you knew then what you know now)?
I honestly don't know. I wouldn't trade my kids for any amount of money in the world. They're the only ones I think I'd honestly give my life up for. I look back at my first marriage and there was so much good that came out of it. It was just at the end that things got "interesting". The 2nd marriage was a mistake as I jumped into it too quickly after my divorce. I may have done that this time around too, though I'm making a more concerted effort to make things work.

4. Would you advise marriage? Depends on the person's goals and desires. I wouldn't advise for it OR against it off-hand. I'd want to talk to both parties and see how they're both approaching it.

#5

well, here is my take on the whole relationship thing.....I am currently married for coming up on 8 years and we do not have kids by choice, now or ever.

1. Tell me what you think about marriage on your best day.
My ideal day of marriage would be when she has laryngitis and develops OCD and just scurries around cleaning and doing laundry and staying away from me.

2. Tell me what you think about marriage on your worst day.
The worst day would be just the opposite of that, a Hall's with Mentho-Lyptus clears up the throat irritation, her mother is coming over for dinner and she wants to talk about our relationship all afternoon.

3. If you are married would you go back and get married now (if you knew then what you know now)?
I would just hire a maid and hope she was attractive so I could hit on her whenever she came over.

4. Would you advise marriage?
If you do not place any value on your personal time and space and do not mind answering endless questions about why you had to work late 6 weeks ago then marriage is just the thing for you!

#6

Bitter E.?

#7

Sounds like me about 4 years ago.

#8

Does 5 months classify as long term relationship

1. Tell me what you think about marriage on your best day.

On the best day I think marriage is all about two people sharing their love for each other and having the best sex of their lives lol. But really I think that the greatest thing about marriage is that you get someone who understands you and can easily tell what you are thinking and be at ease with it all and accept you despite all your flaws.

2. Tell me what you think about marriage on your worst day.

On my worst day marriage is a huge fucking lie and people dont actually mean what they say and there is a lot of deciet in a relationship and all that sort of things.

3. If you are married would you go back and get married now (if you knew then what you know now)?

N/A

4. Would you advise marriage?

it all depends on what you want from life i guess. If you want someone to share your love and your life then go for it and if you want eternal freedom and have nothing holding you back then marriage isnt for you.

#9

1. Tell me what you think about marriage on your best day.

The union of two minds towards whatever that goal may be; friendship; someone to share all with; as source of price, joy and mutual love, admiration, and need.

2. Tell me what you think about marriage on your worst day.

Is there one? Life is to short

3. If you are married would you go back and get married now (if you knew then what you know now)?

Married twice- not now- the end wasnt the best but it doesnt overshadow the good times, phenominal sex, the kids, the memories, the friends.

4. Would you advise marriage?

Just like businesses marriages (over 80% of both bite the bullet) can fail; its a two way street of communication, compromise, team work (if more men did the cooking, cleaning, staying home with kids, grocery shopping, running to extracurricular activities- they'd understand what I'm talking about); letting each still have their own friends, interests, goals and independence; as well as mutual friends, interests, goals, independence and family.

If you cant totally give your identity to another while keeping yours and theirs- marraige is not for you. I've done it twice and I'd do it again (circumstances beyond our control led to the demise)

#10

5 months for me would be long term. LMAO