How often do women show cleavage intentionally?

[turkeytrot]

Okay, gotta an interesting question. With my line of work, I'm in people's homes all the time, many times alone with a woman. I'm a professional, and I would never do or say anything inappropriate. However, quite frequently, I'll be with a woman who seems so unconcerned about showing her cleavage, that I think she may be doing it on purpose. I want to look, but I generally refrain because I don't want to make her uncomfortable.

I'm in my 30's, not ugly, but certainly not a handsome dog, but I think I have a very friendly personality. I don't get the impression that women are always after me, so I'm skeptical that women would be showing off on purpose.

Recently, I was in the home of a very attractive married woman in her late 20's, and she kept bending over in front of me giving me a very nice view. Again, I avoided looking when she might catch me, but it was so frequent and for so long that I think it might have been intentional.

Another time recently, I was in the home a mildly attractive married woman in her late 30's, and she was wearing a loose low cut blouse that kept opening just a little even when she wasn't bending over. She wasn't wearing a bra, so once or twice I got a nice view of her nipple. She kept fixing her blouse, but she wasn't doing a very good job of it because within seconds of pulling it up, I could see half her boob again.

These two instances are some of my best stories, but this sort of thing happens quite frequently, so here's my question: Do you think women frequently show their cleavage on purpose, or is it usually on accident?

[Sir Jig-A-Lot]

Mostly it's a planned thing. I say this from both experience & also hearing & seeing/hearing it from the horse's mouth. Shit is calculated in 80% of cases, with the exception being they are the absentminded sort. [/2cents]

[AYHJA]

I have an interesting take on the psyche of women...It's a story, but I think you'll get the point...

My first love was this cute tennis player whom I called Red...Red and her twin sister were really spirited, friendly girls...I thought Red was beautiful, but she wasn't textbook gorgeous, or a model type...Red and her twin would lament about Joe, who was a dog ugly (IMO, lol) "little person" who milled about campus...Deep black, bow legged, missing some teeth...Probably a little slow too...Fittingly, we called him Lil' Joe...He wasn't who you wanted to see staring over you when you first woke up in he morning...

But one thing about it, Joe only hit on pretty women...We would sit in the plaza after class, watching all the girls go by...It was a pastime of ours...Every evening, Joe would be on the plaza, chasing nothing but the finest women on campus...As much as it seemed he would need to be desperate, Lil' Joe was seemingly far from it...Bottom line, if you wasn't fine, Joe didn't hit on you, period...

One day, Red came to me and asked me if I thought she was beautiful, or pretty or something like that...I assured her that she was, and she went on to explain how even though she'd been on campus for quite some time, Lil' Joe had not hit on her...I was taken back a little by the fact that she noticed his tendencies, but it certainly made me think...She wasn't suicidal, but it was certainly a funk about it to her...If we were on the plaza, and she was there and Joe was there, it was like damn, wtf..?

Some time after explaining that to me, she came running to meet me jumped in my arms and was excited as could be...I thought we'd won the lottery or some shit...

Ooobs: Damn baby, what happened..!?
Red: Guess what..?!?!?
Ooobs: What..?
Red: Lil Joe hit on me..!!!!
Ooobs: No shit..! What did you tell him..?
Red: I told him No fucking way dude, get lost..!

[Sir Jig-A-Lot]

LMAO. Sounds like Red there didn't wanna be left out of the Joe Club so she validate herself.
(Butt what that have to do with cleavage fool?)

[turkeytrot]

So if I understand the point of your story, women may be intentionally showing some cleavage because they like the attention because the attention makes them feel like they are "marketable material." And if they are older, they feel like they "still got it." But they have no intention of letting it go any further than letting a man get more than a subtle glance. I can definitely see that.

I know a group of professional women who complain because certain men they encounter (in a workplace environment) make them feel uncomfortable because they notice their cleavage, look down their blouses, etc. I saw two of them today, and ironically, both were wearing tops that made no attempt to hide their cleavage. I think that if they don't want men looking, then they shouldn't be advertising.

[Sir Jig-A-Lot]

I know a group of professional women who complain because certain men they encounter (in a workplace environment) make them feel uncomfortable because they notice their cleavage, look down their blouses, etc. I saw two of them today, and ironically, both were wearing tops that made no attempt to hide their cleavage.

Once again proving what a lot of them say & what they do contradicts like a motherfucker..

[turkeytrot]

Yup.

[AYHJA]

So if I understand the point of your story, women may be intentionally showing some cleavage because they like the attention because the attention makes them feel like they are "marketable material." And if they are older, they feel like they "still got it." But they have no intention of letting it go any further than letting a man get more than a subtle glance. I can definitely see that.

Bingo, lol...

[jdog]

I would say that any cleavage is intentional. Women are highly aware of their own breasts and what angles are good and bad for showing them off. If they are showing off chest and bending over for you to view then they are aware and shouldn't be offended at it.

[Drew]

But they often times are offended..... Wimmins R strange creatures.